Advice for new swingers about the lifestyle

When you’re part of the swinging community, partner swapping and going to swingers parties can become a regular part of your life. Whereas some people like to indulge perhaps once every few months as a special treat for them and their partner, others prefer to play every week. If you really get of...

Swinging is something that can be enjoyed by couples or singles, bringing excitement, variety and fulfillment to your sex life. It goes by several other names too; ‘partner swapping’, ‘the lifestyle’ or simply ‘the scene’. Some people just try it once or twice to give themselves a thrill...

People who are closed-minded or know nothing about the swinging scene may not be able to distinguish the difference between swinging and polyamory, however, for those in the know, it’s easy to see that they are poles apart. Although they are both consensual, non-monogamous behaviours involving sex...

People who have never been part of the modern swinging scene often have an inaccurate idea of what it’s really like. Two major stereotypes are the 1970s styled middle-aged parents partner swapping with their next door neighbours in the suburbs, or young and beautiful people having debauched partie...

A single female swinger is the fantasy of numerous people within the lifestyle. It’s very common for women on the swingers scene to be bisexual or bi-curious, and straight or bisexual men certainly don’t mind a higher concentration of women at a party! Unless you’re at an event that specifical...

When you’re in the heat of the moment at a swingers party, it can be easy to lose your head. Physical impulses take over and all you’re thinking about is how good you feel. However, this isn’t a private night in with your wife, husband or partner where you have complete mutual trust; it’s a ...

When it comes to the swingers lifestyle, there are no strict rules for how far you can go; it’s a personal choice for you, and also for your partner if you are in a committed relationship. There may be certain regulations set by a venue that is hosting a swingers event, such as prohibiting sex toy...

As long as you have your own home, rented or bought, you can host a swingers party. It may take a little preparation, but you don’t need to own a penthouse apartment or majestic town house to qualify! Just invite the right amount of people to fit the space comfortably, even if it’s just having o...

For those of you who are new to the swinger lifestyle, it’s no wonder that all the jargon gets a bit confusing. We’ve broken it down for you to make it simple; you’ll sound like a pro before you know it! Just scroll through the alphabet to learn the lingo of lovers.

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For those who enjoy the lifestyle, swingers parties can be the highlight of your month. Whether it’s your first time attending or your fiftieth, you’re bound to feel those excited butterflies in your stomach in the days and hours leading up to the event. Those who are seasoned swingers probably ...

Just like being a guest at any party, there is a certain etiquette that is expected to be adhered to when you attend any swingers event, be it in a club, a hotel or a private home. By being a courteous swinger, you’ll make those around you feel comfortable and glad to have you there, with a much h...

When you first try swinging, it can be a very nerve wracking experience, and that’s completely natural. For some it’s a decision they come to themselves, for others they choose to try it because it’s something their partner enjoys. Whichever category you fall under, there’s no reason why yo...

As most people involved in the swingers lifestyle know, there is a certain etiquette that should be adhered to when swinging, whether it’s in a small private group or at a large orchestrated swingers party.
These are like the unspoken rules of swinging; everyone is expected to follow them – jus...

There is no specific dress code that must be adopted when swinging, because every event differs. It’s up to the individual to find out beforehand if there are any requirements.
Like a night club can stipulate no trainers or baseball caps, some swingers clubs and parties do have a certain dress co...

If you’ve never done it before and are a bit curious about the whole swinging lifestyle, here is the simplified version to explain the basics of swinging.
‘Swinging’ is a type of recreational sex that takes place between willing and consenting adults; it’s a social activity, often where on...

Although Swinging is often thought of as an activity for couples, many single people like to indulge too. Single ladies are almost always welcome to attend swingers parties, but often single men cannot attend. This is because many men want to get into the swinger lifestyle for the wrong reasons; the...