We were very worried about starting to swing. Elaine wanted to feel the touch of another woman and I was worried how I was going to feel, would it make me jealous, would Elaine be jealous of me looking at another woman - we were concerned it would end badly.

When it came to it we both talked long and hard, I think this is the most important first step. You need to make sure that its something you both want and are committed to. When it happened it was magic! We both took part in selecting the right female and it was everything we could have wanted.

or women. Many guys think all you have to do is turn up and expect to get shagged. Sometimes that is true but on the whole you have to work at it, just as you would a date! Take your time and get to know others, chat, hang out and generally be cool. Thats when the sex will start!

I was new, naive and never swung before. I didn’t know what to expect from the lifestyle at all. I was worried if it was safe. Infact its probably a lot safer than going to a bar and getting laid! On most of the swinger sites you can leave feedback for others and also check out their standing in the community. The best single males are actually quite in need so you can talk to others about their experiences with them.

I wanted to share myself with another female while a guy watched. I didn’t really want to be taken by him too. As it was I joined up and wrote a good profile, I think thats really important and explained exactly what I wanted. I took my time with is also another key criteria when it comes to selecting the right couple for your first time. As it was I found another couple who were also just starting out, we took things really slowly and learnt together. It was the most amazing fuck of my life, in the end I let him ;-) !

I’m a big girl and proud of it, I have big assets and wanted to share them. I joined a swinger site as I wanted guys, I wanted a gang bang. If I go to a bar and pick up guys then I’m a slut, here I’m a valued member of the community. We’re all here to have fun, not to judge each other. Everyone shares the same values and wants to enjoy having sex in a fun and safe environment. Also I’m not looking to get married, I just want to have guys fuck me, here everyone knows that and is on the same page.

It was George’s fantasy to watch another guy fuck me while he watched. It was important as we were both so super nervous to take things slowly. Putting up pictures on the site helped us a lot as we’re an older couple of worried about our age. As it was there were lots of young guys and older guys on the site that it wasn’t an issue for. The guy we finally chose was very respectful, he was also a little bi and ended up sucking George’s dick too - Swinging we decided was definitely for us!