Advice section for those who are just starting out in the lifestyle and are loking for the do and dont’s!

There are several rules that everyone needs to stick to when it comes to swinging -

1. No means no! This is the most important rule of any swinging event and one that all swingers stick to. If you don’t you’re not a true swinger and won’t be invited back. If you’re at a club or party and don’t take the first no that you’re given the chances are that you’ll find yourself on the street in no time at all.

2. Always leave with who you came with at a party! It sounds obvious doesn’t it, but its really so important. Jealousy is a terrible emotion that no one likes, seeing your partner overly indulged with someone else is not good. You have to leave with whom you came with no matter of the circumstances. If you break this rule the chances are that you don’t get invited back

3. Safe sex is a must. Condoms are cheap, kids and STD’s aren’t! Almost all sensible swingers won’t play without protection. If you chose this lifestyle you also have to be responsible as well and take certain things as a given. Using condoms is one of those. Again if you’re at a club or party you want to be invited back, right?

4. Personal safety is another important consideration. If you’re a single female meeting a guy you need to do it in a public place to start with, always let someone else know where you are going. Preferably also check the guy out on the site where you met him as much as possible. Talk to others, have they met him before, was he okay etc etc. Don’t accept drinks you didn’t see the barman pour, keep your phone on you at all times. Swinging in generally safe but its your responsibility and not the sites to keep t as safe as possible.

5. The same goes if you’re a single guy meeting a woman, don’t forget there are dangers out there, check her our first, meet in a public place. Talk and let her take the lead, keep your dick in your pants until she gets it out - not you!

6. If you’re swinging as a couple make sure you decide on a safe word. This is a word that you can both agree on that if the other says you know he or she is feeling uncomfortable and wants to leave. I don’t care if you’re about to cum, stop whatever you are doing and act on this immediately.

7. Decide on your boundaries before you start, do you only want a soft swap, full swap, same room fun or free to do whatever. Make sure you decide before you start and then stick to it

8. Most importantly remember to have fun! Thats what being a swinger is all about, fun. Make sure its safe, everybody is in agreement and then you can’t go wrong!